Monday, November 5, 2012

Guess who's 4 months old today!!!!

Someone's a HAPPY GIRL!  Nicolette is 4 Months old today!!!!

We started out with our Monday walk with our Mommy Group and then hung out at home together.  Nicolette kept mommy in "nap jail" for 3 hours today!!!!  Then we had our monthly photo shoot with Ellie the Elephant.  Nicolette was feeling rather photogenic and is increasing interested in Ellie...especially her ears.






Outtakes:  



Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Busy, busy, busy

I have to admit that I'm more than a little surprised at how busy we have been over the past couple of weeks!  It's been hard to find time to sit down with my computer and write out memories and milestones.

Nicolette is growing and developing by leaps and bounds.  Last week she started "talking" to us...her incessant babbling is so sweet...I love hearing her precious little voice and just wonder what she is really trying to tell us!

Nicolette also started "playing" with her toys last week.  Before she would very rarely grab a toy and then usually not do anything with it.  Now she'll pick up her rattles and toys and pass them back and forth between her hands and of course shove them in her mouth.  It's so much fun to watch the wonder in her eyes as she discovers each new little thing!

Nicolette also got her first case of the sniffles.  We've had a runny nose all week.  She thought it was funny at first but was quick to learn that the bulb syringe is NOT a fun toy...and neither are kleenexes. No real fever to speak of so mommy is hoping that it clears up soon...running the humidifier nonstop and trying not to torture my poor baby too much with the aspirator and kleenex.

Here's a recap of the last couple of weeks...more for mommy's sake so taht she doesn't forget wha thappened...time is moving much too quickly!  

Last week we went to the Pumpkin Patch to pick out pumpkins...Hall family Farm is the CUTEST spot.  We hope to make this an annual tradition...



We had our weekly playdate with our South Charlotte Mommies group.  We meet for a walk each week - last week it was rainy so we walked at South Park and then went to lunch with Miss Tiffany & Leela and Miss Erin and Jameson.  Here's a pic of Leela and Nicolette checking each other out after our walk.


We had a great playdate with our friends Miss Tiffany and Leela.  Here's Leela in the Boppy Lounger that she was kind enough to loan to us...I think she's outgrown it just a tad    

Leela is older than Nicolette and seemed determined to teach Nicolette how to crawl.








Nicolette's getting better at sitting up on the couch (as long as there are pillows nearby!
 
We took our first family vacation and were surprised that we'd been upgraded to a nice suite at the Westin Resort & Spa on Hilton Head Island...can you spot the baby?







We had lunch by the pool with daddy after his golf game...

I love these two...

Snoozing on the beach...


Chillin' at the Ice Cream Shoppe...






The only part of the trip that was not enjoyable was the car ride home...the first 2 hours were great (she slept) but the last 2 1/2 hours will forever be dubbed as "Carmageddon"...serious screaming with a few stops because mommy wanted to make sure that she wasn't still hungry...she wasn't...just didn't want to be stuck in her carseat any more.  Needless to say we booked plane tickets to Connecticut for the holidays as soon as we got back...none of us want to struggle through that for the 15 hour drive to and from Connecticut to see the Randazzo clan.  Nicolette is excited to meet her Gram and Papa, Aunts, Uncles and Cousins!

For the first month or so I felt that by staying at home that I should have a perfectly kept home and gourmet meals on the table every night.  Now I'm finding that I'm spending more and more time just holding Nicolette and trying to soak up every second that I can with her.  I don't mind being nap trapped and find that I pretty much hold her through 80-90% of her naps throughout the day. It's so peaceful watching her sleep and it has helped me to slow down, relax and savor this special time.  I know that these precious moments will be gone all too quickly and I'd rather have a dirty floor and laundry piled up in the closet than miss out on this incredible experience.

Friday, October 5, 2012

The end of "the fourth trimester"

That's right!  Today is Nicolette's 3 Month Birthday!  The official end of the "fourth trimester"

We've had an AWESOME 3 months and feel SOOOOO very blessed with Baby Nicolette.  She is such a good baby that I sometimes can't believe this is my real life!  I absolutely love watching her discover things...the simplest things like how she'll stare in wonderment at her hands as she rubs them together makes me so happy.  She nearly sleeps through the night - waking to eat once or twice...but since we co-sleep and breastfeed that's super easy to handle quickly.  Other than that she's such an easy going baby...little fusses here and there but we're usually able to "cure" them quickly!

This month we'll take our first family trip - we're heading to the beach (Hilton Head) for a few days with daddy so that will be lots of fun!   Suggestions on what to pack (and what to leave behind) are greatly appreciated!  It's a short trip...only 4 days but we're excited about it.

Kind of happy...

Very serious...

Photo shoot is officially OVER!
(She stopped crying seconds after this photo...
I feel like a mean mommy for wanting to capture a pic of her crying)

We finally got Ele monogrammed!
Thank you Auntie Heather for the awesome gift!

Saturday, September 29, 2012

Looking Back...

"I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. 28 So now I give her him to the LORD. For his whole life she he will be given over to the LORD.” 
 I Samuel 1:27-28
Lord forgive me for changing the pronouns to fit our situation :) 


It's so hard to believe that a year ago we were preparing for this journey just HOPING and PRAYING that it would result in a precious baby.  I never would have imagined that we would be blessed with the sweetest angel!  I wanted to take a look back over the past year just to remind myself of what we went through to bring us to where we are today...so here goes....

October 2, 2011 I received an expensive box FULL of needles, hormones, medications, gauze pads, alcohol swabs, etc., etc., etc., that would forever change our lives.

More than $2,000 worth of medications, needles and supplies
October 9, 2011 our IVF protocol begins: injections, injections and more injections!

October 19, 2011 our Egg Retrieval is scheduled.  The mommy's part is pretty invasive and includes doping me up with Propofol to sedate me prior to the procedure followed by inserting an 8" needle inside of me in order to retrieve as many eggs as they possibly could.  Many prayers were said for enough healthy eggs which would then be injected to form embryos.  


October 24, 2011, we sat (well I laid) in a little waiting room at REACH staring at this picture wondering if one or both of these little embryos might be "sticky" enough to latch on and become our son or daughter.

Our sweet little Embryos ready for 5 day transfer - I wonder which one is Nicolette!
We are "patiently" waiting for our transfer!
October 31, 2011 - while at our annual neighborhood Halloween get together I mentioned to the Italian that I really was not feeling well.  Feeling nauseous and not wanting to eat anything - not the pizza at the party and not even a bite of Halloween candy (for those who don't know me well, that is not like me at all...I don't turn down pizza OR candy).  Looking back I now see that this was a sign of the morning sickness to come.  

November 4, 2011 - I waited and waited for a phone call from REACH to confirm whether or not we were in fact "pregnant".  I received the call while at lunch with co-workers so they were the first to know...even before daddy!  I called the Italian from the restaurant and I went home that night and bought a test just so that I could finally see the POSITIVE results for myself!  After years of seeing Negative, Not Pregnant, Frowny Faces, Minus Signs, this was like a sweet victory!  

We were thrilled and excited however the waiting was not over as Dr. Katz and team wanted to ensure that my HcG levels continued to rise at the correct rate and we were blessed to have rates that TRIPLED!  Our baby was here to stay!!!

November 23, 2011 - Our first ultrasound at REACH when we saw our little hummingbird for the first time with her heart rate of 150 beats per minute.  Still continuing daily progesterone injections.  

December 7, 2011 - Graduation Day - we had our second ultrasound at REACH and sweet little girl's heartbeat was racing at 170 beats per minute.  I even got to see her dance on the screen!  Daddy unfortunately had to miss it due to his own Dr's appointment.  We got our "graduation present" from REACH ~ a "Made in Charlotte" Onesie and orders to stop my progesterone injections and were placed back in the capable hands of Dr. Bale - my OB.  I'm down 14 lbs from my pre-IVF weight and Dr. Katz writes a prescription for Zofran and threatens to put me in the hospital for IVs if I don't take it. I oblige :) (and it helps - not cures, but helps).  Finally given the ok to discontinue progesterone injections...it made me super nervous to stop (just because everything was going so well with them, what if that was the "glue" holding everything together?) thankfully everything went perfectly!  

December 19, 2011 - Our first appointment with Dr. Bale...sad not to have an ultrasound (as I had gotten so used to having one every time I went to REACH).  But we were able to hear the sweet baby's heart beat!  Still taking Zofran and never would have made it through our drive to Connecticut for Christmas with the Randazzo's without it.  Still not much of an appetite, but finally finished losing weight for a while.  

January 17, 2012 - We have a "bump sighting" - makes me giggle now that I thought that I was getting HUGE when this photo was taken at 15 weeks :) 

15 weeks
February 14th, 2012 - We have our Anatomy Scan and the tech and doctor both agree that everything looks GOOD!  Praise the Lord.  At this point only our ultrasound tech, doctor and the oh so talented Cake Lady Jill know if the little hummingbird is a boy or girl....

February 22th 2012 - 20 weeks and the Bump is GROWING
20 weeks 
February 24th, 2012 - Nicolette's first party - her Gender Reveal Party!  We were so happy to be surrounded by friends and family as we found out that we were welcoming a sweet little GIRL into our lives!!!!





March 4th, 2012 - Nicolette gets to meet the First Lady.  While working on a very high profile fundraising event for the upcoming Democratic National Convention being hosted in Charlotte the Secret Service and White House Advance teams were nice enough to schedule in a few moments for us to chat with the First Lady and have a photo taken.  She asked several questions about Nicolette and my pregnancy.   
Nicolette meets the First Lady of the United States (FLOTUS)
March 28th - 25 weeks
25 weeks

April 2012 - what a difference 2 weeks makes!!!!
29 weeks
31 weeks
April 22nd - Baby Shower with my work family

May 16th - 35 weeks and our 4d ultrasound.  We're In Love!

June, 2012 - funny to see how it changes depending on how and where she's curled up from week to week!
35 weeks
36 weeks
37 weeks
June 3rd - Baby Shower with my TopCat Sisters

June 23rd - Baby Shower hosted by one of my dearest friends, Laura

July 4th - my last HDBD - we went to a cookout at our friends'/neighbors' house.  I had been feeling a little tired but still pretty good.  Little did I know that I would be in LABOR shortly afterwards.  
39 weeks
July 5th, 2012 - you can read the full birth story here  but to make a long story short, my contractions began shortly after midnight on July 5th and I labored at home until nearly 8:00pm that evening.  Less than an hour after arriving at the hospital, sweet Nicolette was in my arms!  
I was still in awe at this point - I couldn't believe that less than an hour
after arriving at the hospital I had this sweet little person in my arms!
Gosh, she's beautiful!!!!!
July 7, 2012 - Welcome Home Nicolette...
Welcome Home Nicolette!


...and they all lived HAPPILY EVER AFTER!

THE END*

*which is actually its own new beginning...