ser·en·dip·i·ty/ˌserənˈdipitē/Noun: The occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way. During our 3 years of "trying" to start a family I would get notices that someone we know was blessed with a pregnancy, a "happy accident" which by the way is synonymous with my all time favorite word~SERENDIPITY. Now I know that there are no Happy Accidents, rather God's hand is on each and every one of us creating amazing opportunities each and every day.
Monday, September 19, 2011
Teddy Roosevelt...
So my latest obsession has been pinterest....if you have not yet stumbled into this magnificent time warp, BEWARE. You log in and 3 hours (and 800 nutella recipes later) you snap out of it and realize that you have lost hours of your life which will never be reclaimed. Anywho, it is fun and a bit torturous...I have to admit that I have my own bambino folder with pictures of babies, nurseries, etc. It's fun to live in my imaginary Internet world once in a while.
Now it's not all psychotic like that, I also have useful boards about crafts, recipes, home projects and m latest obsession....Nutella. I also have an "inspiration" board filled with scriptures, pictures and quotes to flip through if an when I need a pick me up. Tonight I found the PERFECT quote. I posted last week about my ability to compartmentalize my feelings about our struggle with infertility, especially with so many of my friends and loved ones expecting little bundles of their own. I certainly do not want to imply that I'm a saint or that I'm handling this better than anyone else....I had a hard time trying to describe the way my brain has chosen to cope with all of this. Then I found this quote by Theodore Roosevelt...
"Comparison is the thief of joy"
What wise words! And that is exactly how I have chosen to feel. I'm not going to let my own sadness or self pity allow me to steal the joy that I can feel for my blessed friends! Our journey is our own and I don't want to compare our path to anyone else's. I'll have to remind myself of thus as we take our next steps over the next month.
Thanks for the reminder Teddy R! Sometimes inspiration comes when (and from where) you least expect it!
Now off to enjoy tonight's episode of "Giuliana & Bill"...another inspiration for me...love watching their story too! Cheers!
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Love it, Kelly! So impressed with your amazing attitude, even if it means slapping on a smile!
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I'm obsessed with Pintrest. Omg. I have a baby file too, mostly of baby Halloween costumes. LOL. So cute.
ReplyDeleteWe must share a brain...I just wrote about Bill and Giuliana as well!!!
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I love that! I need to adopt that same mentality since that is what I'm struggling with right now.
ReplyDeleteI'm here from ICLW#41 and your new follower!
Eggsinarow, I think we are peas in a pod! Welcome to the flock Cyndi! We'll all get through it!
ReplyDeleteLove the quote!
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